My husband has waited more than a year for this woman?!?

You shouldn't care! Leave the jerk and get on with your life! My ex wife is still with the guy that she cheated on when we were married. I didnt care than and I dont care now! Once she cheated, it was OVER and the affection was plucked from my heart! I am remarried now for 5 years, have my first child ever, and am much better off with a faithful woman who was a virgin when I married her!